If you are interested to learn why most successful people are silent? Then this post is for you! I will explain 6 reasons why silent people are successful. So let's dive in.
It’s a saying that before you speak let your Word pass through three gates: Is it valuable? Is it necessary? And is it making any difference?
The Power of Silence:
The person who understands it what, when, where, and how much to speak? Nobody can prevent such a person from being prosperous. A spoken phrase is like a weapon that you can use, but it never comes back, just like a shot arrow. You must be learned to use it properly because the person who has no control over their speaking always puts himself in trouble. They lost control over everything.
Even today people only speak to humiliate each other. Sometimes they speak without any reason just to get validation but rewards are very powerful and they can change the world. If you know how to speak so the people who know when to speak and how much to speak are very strong.
Now let me make it clear, Silence is not meaning to stay without saying a word. Here, silence means not speaking anything without any valuable reason. It means speaking only when it is necessary or valuable. Silence means laser focus and silence means focusing on your goal and focusing on your work.
6 Reasons why silencing People are Successful:
I will tell you the Six powerful benefits of being silenced and it will transform your life completely.
Number one :
Silence makes your opponent confused. The greatest warrior sons who said he will we who knows when to speak and why not to speak. He said he defeated thousands of his enemies with his power of silence so many times he puts his enemies into deep thinking by staying silent.
He said when you stay silent it makes your enemies perplexed and they start thinking about you and your plan that what you are going to do, and what's your next move because of the fear in this way they lost focus on their own goals and this is how you can keep your plans secret and this is how you can take advantage from silence and at the end the game is yours. You can win it in your style.
Number two :
Silence builds laser focus. The absence of speech is not quiet; rather, it is the presence of attention. Silence people have lots of ideas and things to say but they don't speak unless it is necessary. If you want to do something big in life or if you work on any kind of project then what would you do to get success?
You need focus and what did you need to have that kind of laser focus? You need to stop focusing on multiple things and keep quiet. let me tell you a story in a mosque in his childhood used to stay silent most of the time so their parents thought he had a year problem because most of the time he can't listen to anything.
So their parents took him to the hospital but the doctor said he was well and ultimately they found out the reason, why he can't be used to hearing anything, was because of his study with laser focus. Now you can see the power of silence laser focus puts you in deep silence and deep silence helps you to achieve laser focus.
Number three:
Silence gets people's attention. Now you are going to realize how silence gets people's attention if you have ever been in a classroom or in a group situation you have most likely experienced how silence often gets everyone's attention. If the teacher is talking away the listener's mind might start to wonder when the speaker stops talking.
A signal goes to the brain that something has happened to all of them. Suddenly pay attention to try and figure out why communication has stopped. The same is true in our daily conversation if we are silent, people take note and we gain their attention.
If you stay silent and focus on your goal. If you speak only when it is necessary then people's focus goes on you or if you stay silent and speak only about what is valuable then people will listen to you, people value you, and people will remember you and recommend you.
Number four:
Silence builds trust to achieve success. Connecting with successful people and developing effective relationships becomes very essential. Relationship is very important in life so if you want to develop effective relationships or if you want to connect with successful people you need you must build trust and build trust you must listen to them carefully that's what successful people do.
They do not do all the talking but you can see some people when they meet with successful people start chattering. They go busy talking about their own stuff but successful people mostly focus on listening. They ask questions about the other person and listen to them .when you listen to a person carefully they will realize they are valuable in your life. They will feel like an important person and in this way, they will trust you.
Number five:
Silence helps to negotiate. You ponder about the other person's possible thoughts while they remain silent. So turn the tables and let them wonder what you are thinking. Maybe you got a job and have been asked for a salary or the company mentions a salary figure but you want more than that so do not answer immediately.do not say I will take it or No pause.
Stay silent for a moment the discomfort of the silence will make the other person want to feel the void and start talking. Let them reveal information that helps as the conversation progresses, you want to be in the driver's seat.
Number six:
Silence builds strength. Most of us don't like silence and we are afraid of it because we equate silence with insignificance as we want to be heard and seen as liked and loved by people. We all want people's attention, we all want to show people, and we always want to be something or someone good in the eyes of another person.
We are depending on other people's opinion as their opinion makes us feel good also sometimes their opinions makes us feel bad so we give our power away. We are constantly in search of something we already have but we already have everything we truly need we can't recognize them until we become silent and get rid of distractions.
Conclusion:
Silence gives us a sense of cell value everything is within us. If we recognize how to connect allowing silence to listen to our breath opens the possibility to find out the self-value right there.
You don't need people to tell you who you are and what you are capable of. What you can and what you can't which they ultimately tell you from their own limited perspective instead of that if we stay silent we would find our inner voice and would realize that we are already all we need to be and accept who we are is a victory. Silence will make you realize what's your strength. Silence will help you define your strength. Silence is really powerful.
SURELY SILENCE CAN SOMETIMES BE THE MOST ELOQUENT REPLY.
MOLA ALI (A.S)
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